Thirty-four summers ago, I found this 14k gold ring with four tiny rhinestones in the port of Hydra. I was in an outdoor café drinking sludgy Greek coffee when the ring glistened up at me from the ground. I took it to the closest jewelry shop and asked what it was worth. The guy weighed it and told me in Greek Drachma it was the equivalent of $150.00. He offered to buy it from me for the gold, but despite needing money to keep travelling, I never considered it.
I had been spending a lazy summer on Hydra where my Uncle Charlie built a house that he still owns. Leonard Cohen was a neighbor, and if you see the new movie Marianne & Leonard, much of it is set on the small Saronic Gulf island (my uncle’s house is in several shots) where Leonard and Marianne met and lived and loved in a community of free-spirited artists in the 60s. Hydra is magical, sexy, inspiring, wild, and otherworldly. It’s one of my favorite earthly places.
My uncle isn’t Greek, but he and my Aunt Marcie moved to Athens to teach English at the American school, something I would end up doing decades later in Japan and Luxembourg. So, my three cousins grew up in Greece, attending school there and raising hell, as they once told me.
But then my Aunt Marcie died when my cousins were teenagers, and, as a way to heal, my uncle and his kids built this house on top of a high hill on Hydra. There are no cars on the island, just donkeys to get your suitcase or building supplies up the hundreds of shallow white stairs. In fact, when my uncle bought the rocky property for about 10K, it was just a stone wall with a skinny donkey living behind it. The donkey became part of the family and would continue to live beside the house for years.
In 1985, just three weeks after my father died, I left for a junior year abroad in London. At the end of the four months, I went to Greece and spent 6 weeks on Hydra in that whitewashed villa on the cliff. My sister, Betsy, and some friends also came for a few weeks. I invited Mark to join me (we had dated in college, and he was also doing a semester in Europe), instead he returned to New Haven—and still has regrets about it.
That summer, without Mark there, I spent much of my time discovering the beauty of Hydra, and in the process, unearthed a passion for writing. I fell for a dodgy Australian cliff diver who wore a ratty pink tee-shirt covered with about 25 expressions using the word “fuck.” And I wrote an essay about him in a college creative writing class the following fall.
I’m remembering Hydra most vividly these days because of the new Leonard Cohen movie. I’ve had a life-long connection with Leonard, saw him in concert twice, read the lyrics to “Dance Me to the End of Love” at my wedding, and adore that, at least in spirit, Leonard and I share Hydra.
In exactly two months from today on 9-19-19 my memoir, Trove: A Woman’s Search for Truth and Buried Treasure will be published by Brown Paper Press, and I have been happily selecting small treasures from my own trove of found things to send to people who preordered the book. I’m also putting together one special treasure for an online hunt. But this one Hydra treasure–I’ve been holding onto it.
I have worn this ring hundreds of times. For a few years, it was the only nice piece of jewelry that I owned, and I always put it on for special occasions like my college graduation, friends’ weddings, and fancy dates.
I haven’t worn the ring in ages, because my fingers are now taken up with my sapphire wedding ring (Mark’s great grandfather won it in a side bet in a poker match) and—more recently—a new antique sterling ring my friend Holloway gave me because the amber glass stone matched my book cover. At first I couldn’t accept it, but she reminded me we don’t need to hold on to jewelry that we don’t wear and someone else might love.
So, I’m excited for this special gold ring from Hydra to be my next giveaway. I’ll randomly choose one person from the next 200 readers who subscribe to my mailing list on my website, SandraAMiller.com, and then I’ll send the ring off to the winner. Or, if you have already signed up, just leave a comment below and I’ll add your name to the drawing.
I can’t wait to pass this ring on to one of you, and hope that it brings you some of the transformative magic that I experienced all those years ago when I—a 20-year-old girl with a flowy white dress, a choppy London haircut, and new dream of writing—found it on a Greek island.
Sign up here for a chance to “catch” the gold ring.
You can use one of these links to preorder my memoir Trove, through Amazon or Brown Paper Press.
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How fun! Can family members play? If so, add the name of your favorite sister please!
Yes! Added.
I would love to be entered in your drawing! What a great history for the ring!!
Time to visit the Greek islands!!
Obviously, Jim!
What a beautiful story! I would love to enter to win this unique ring that has such history. Keep sharing your magical tales with the world.
Thank you dear one.
Addie! How is it possible you were not ALREADY a subscriber? I think you should ask her for that white dress while you’re at it. But keep your long locks. The choppy London do looks fab on your mom but we love your hair just the way it is 😍😍😍
She’s only in it for the jewels, Connie!
I love reading about your adventures and discoveries, Sandra. Hydra for you, Mykonos for me, spring break of my junior year in Paris. 😆
Ah, Betty, I’m sure you have some stories to tell about Mykonos. That’s my next dream island. Someday…
How about your favorite sister’s friends? :) Can they enter?
Thanks for sharing your wonderful memories, I love your writing. And so does our book club!
Hope to meet you in person when you’re in Munich!
Yes! Favorite sister’s friends are encouraged to join. So looking forward to my Munich reading and meeting you and the group. Thanks for signing up!
I love your writing style Sandra – you take me to places I’ve never been each time!
Great memories. The photos brought me right back to that summer. And I treasure your writing…..peace. kathy
Thanks Kathy. Loved going through the photos and finding that one.
Stories like those from your summer in Greece (still sad to have missed it) and my own adventures abroad, are why I encourage my daughters to say yes when opportunities present themselves. Maybe they won’t all be life changing but they add to the makeup of who you become. I’m so grateful that I was a small part of your adventures and the memories still make me cry with laughter!
Thank you Susan. You were certainly part of this adventure.
Such a beautiful story!
I have always wanted to go to Greece. I missed an opportunity when I was in high school and regretted it ever sense. Greece has an a dream ever sense. Someday, I will get there!
Of course you will get there. Dream it into being.
What a beautiful story, Sandra. I can’t wait for your book.
People Magazine, Maureen!
I would love to order the book. How do I do so?
I’ll send the link on FB. Thanks Deb.
Count me in!
You’re in!
Amazing story Sandi! I hope to see you if your book tour brings you to Ireland.
Of course it will, as long you’re there.
I always enjoy your writing, Sandra. Looking forward to reading your book!
Thanks Erica!
I’m in!
Thanks for this…and the garden help!
Sandra–I love the the photos and this post about Greece and Leonard Cohen and your magpie eye! I’m delighted to have the new-old amber glass get a mention: if the ring fits, wear it! I’m also happily signing up for your blog, but recusing myself from the giveaway (not that I ever win giveaways, but just in case)–too petite for my chunky knuckles. P.S. Very much engaged by my current reading material ;).
Ooh hoo! Thanks for singing and “ring”ing and reading!
count me in again and again and again
Always dear Ellen! You count a lot! Have your girls sign up for better odds. xo s
If I win, could the author deliver it to my door please?
Looking forward to reading your book.
Obviously. If it’s at sunset and there’s a cute puppy!
Perfect day to read about summer in a Greek island!
(Hi Betsy! Cute pic of you guys)
Good luck to the other 199!!
Thank you Candy! Good luck to you!
Ahhhhhh love love love! Greece, my heart. If it’s possible to enter this, please include me!
How could I not include you Jennifer? Lover of all things Greek…from yogurt to islands! The ring may be yours.
Love it! Sign me up, please. I’m excited to read the book and to meet you in Munich!
Yay! Thanks for signing up. I can’t wait to meet you in Munich.
Your words and the recently seen movie made me nostalgic for the days I spent with my family on Greek islands as we meandered our way back to the US every two summers from living abroad. I subscribe to the thought of letting go of some of our treasures and sending them off into the world for someone else to cherish and love. Thank you.
Thanks for your thoughtful comment. And yes to releasing our treasures!
Can’t wait to read the book, always love a good story where it takes me places I hope to get to one day.
Thanks Coco. Our beach is pretty good, too, though!
When my wedding ring was stolen – my mother’s wedding ring and my only physical connection to her since her passing 40 years ago – I wished that it would bring joy to someone else on its journey. Wouldn’t that be a great idea for a book!!! – A Ring’s Journey…or something like that?
Count me in for the drawing, dear friend!
You’re in, my dear. And I know that ring you lost is having it’s own journey.
So excited for you, Sandra, that your book is being published. Wishing you much success!!
Lovely piece, Sandy. Can’t wait for the book!